When love happens, it stirs up lots of high expectations and ready to stand firm admits all forms of criticism. That could be likened to the case of Anna Banner Ebiere, the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria, 2013 and her undying love for talented Musician, Chinedu Okoli popularly known as Flavour’s Na’abalia….
However, in a recent interview with top blogger, SDK, Anna revealed she has walked out her relationship with the Golibe Crooner who is also her baby’s daddy.
According to her, ” First of all, Flavour and I are no longer together. I made this decision recently. I spoke to myself and decided it was time to move on and focus on my future and career.
On why she became a baby mama at such a young age, she said, ” I never decided to become a baby mama ,I just fell in love. I fell in love and got pregnant unexpectedly for the man I loved. I had never gotten pregnant before and i was scared of abortion.I decided to keep my baby no matter what ,i never tried to hold a man down or force marriage on anyone with my pregnancy. You know in life, the hardest decisions always turn out beautiful. I don’t regret keeping my baby one bit. She is my greatest achievement in life so far. I fall in love with her every second of the day.”
Accusing the first baby mama of coming in-between her and Flavour, Ms Banner claimed she was the first in his life before Sandra.
“I never knew flavour was with another woman while we were dating. We started dating way before ‘Golibe was composed’. He never mentioned/admitted he had any relationship ties with anyone even after rumour had it that he was dating someone else and she was even pregnant for him. I believed him.
I confronted him again when i heard she had put to bed and it seemed true. He accepted after much talk but unfortunately i was already pregnant ,never knew i was pregnant until i was one month gone. What was i supposed to do? Take out my precious child? Hell no.I believe God sent her to me for a reason.
So you see, it was never my intention to break anybody’s relationship or come in between two lovers. I just never knew. For those of you out there judging and persecuting me for something you know nothing about ,let me ask,Are you better than i am?Is it okay by God for you to Judge me when he has forgiven me all my sins?.
I made an adult decision at a young age and i am so proud of myself for keeping my baby. People always say i am competing/fighting with someone all because of a man . Really? Fighting and competing? Thats too much energy. Seeking for a man’s attention is never/ has never been my thing! I’m not done seeking for God and my daughter’s attention.
People always refer to me as “husband snatcher” but please, that is not the case.Many of have been victims of love and i am sure we all know that when a woman is deeply in love,she believes everything her man tells her.
I am not a husband snatcher,i was just naive of a lot of things and everyday i ask God to give me wisdom to see well and make the right choices.”
But it seems Flavour’s heart is still with Anna Ebiere, as he shared photo of the daughter almost daily on his Instagram page, but he is afraid of commitment, especially marriage.
Hopefully, they might reconcile and surprise us all with wedding picture…….