Singer Harry Song’s Estranged Wife, Alexer Perez Gopa has revealed shocking details about their crashed Marriages and alleged that he infected her with all types of STDs.
During an interview with on air personality Freeze on an Instagram live session, the 23 year old alleged that the Singer always reminded her that he married her out of pity and not because he loved her.
She disclosed that his cheating habits were becoming alarming as she had undergone countless treatments for various STDs.
She also disclosed that Harrysong always emphasized on a male child and the topic usually brings friction between them.
In her words:
“It all started when I gave birth to my second child and she became a girl. Before that, he has already been saying that he wants a boy,and I told him am not the one that gives children or gender so I don’t understand why he would be bringing this issues after barely two years of marriage.
Secondly was the cheating part that was becoming too much. Everybody will say he’s a celebrity of course you know before you enter like so that one is not the problem;which is understandable.i said no problem, If you are cheating, A man that cheats will come back home.
But not the one that you will now go out, you will do it and bring it to my face. If I talk I will still end up being the one begging, because I want to keep the Marriage.family will not support me, friends will not support me. I have complained to almost all the family members. It has been going on and on. When he gets upset and angry , he will slap me.he will say; ‘eh,it’s just slap na’, is slap not abuse?.The amount of infections I have treated in the cause of this whole thing is becoming too much.i cannot be in a marriage and the man cannot even use condom outside, the girlfriends are not one or two.
Then let’s come to bodyshaming, he bodyshames me. At a point I told him we would start using protection so we can be able to hold on until conception, he agreed. The pack of condoms I bought is still here with me. He knows about the drugs that I take and he asked me to stop, that it would spoil my womb and I was like you’ve not stopped on what you are doing and I would not say because you are cheating, I will leave you;let me also be protecting myself. When he finishes his escapades with those other girls, he would now come home and start bodyshaming me, telling me I have stretch marks, am not good enough, am second hand;that even if I go out, that no man would accept me because am second hand, that am mother of girls
I am currently pregnant.its not like we are having intercourse.At the time, I even had to give space for one year before I even considered.i asked him what we should to the pregnancy and he said we should keep it but he’s looking for a boy,so he does not know if this one would be a boy.there’s no time that he would come to me and say he wants to have something and I will not agree because he’s my husband.the fact that he bodyshames me, having stretch marks,not having standing breasts like his sidechics and that am a mother of girls,all of these things have put me in a depression for so long,and he told me that even if I speak out that no one would believe me,so I’ve just been like that
The last time he came into the room because he wanted to sieze my phone, and delete all evidence , he came to the house, forcefully collected my phone, as we were trying to drag, he threw me to the wall, even with this my pregnancy and I ended up in the hospital and the doctor was like my breath is seizing.everybody that I complain to, he would manipulate and lie and change the topic. There is no time that he would say this is how it is. He would say anybody that wants to talk to me, he should be put on conference call so that as am talking, he would be talkng his own. He said I should not do any business and I should not on social media which I’ve not been on for three years because I dey obey man.When I insisted that I wanted to start a business, he borrowed me N600k,another time he gave me 1Million for a business that didn’t work out, I later gave him back his money after I sold all the things that I bought.
he said he didnt marry me out of love,that it’s out of pity so anything that he dishes to me That I should take anything that he gives to me.
Even wit All the arguments going on online,I was still waiting for him to say something, atleast when a man’s family is quarreling a wife, when the man says ‘ah, you people should leave my wife, it would give me the mind to even reconsider but rather when he came back from Paris, he had been telling me to leave because he had siezed the car key, any small quarrell, he would sieze phone, he won’t bring money for feeding. So when I told him I wanted to go, that am tired, he embarrassed me in front of friends family, girlfriends , there’s no particular place that he does not insult me”.
