Evangelist Naomi Silekunola, estranged wife of the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi Ojaja II, has reacted to the death of gospel singer Sis. Osinachi Nwachukwu, urging women to stop seeking validation.
The Queen in a social media post begged her fellow women to always cry for help when necessary and learn to say no even if the world can’t reason with them.
Her post:
Woman, thou art loosed! (Luke 13:12)
You have a right to say no.
It is your right to be tired.
You can put your hands in the air,
Cry for help if you have to;
Say no even if the world can’t reason with you.
Because, in the grave they still will not.
Don’t wait untill death comes,
In anticipation for a pity party.
Death is the end of hope.
Are you hoping he would come to love you and respect you,
stop mentally ,emotionally and physically abusing you?
If you die, that’s where hope ends.
Call for help, nobody is a saint .
We are all work in progress.
Are you a perfectionist and you want the world to keep seeing the perfect side of you?
Stop playing God.
Let God be God and man be man.
Accept that it can’t work, if it won’t work .
We always know it when it can’t.
Finally, quit seeking validation.
May the soul of the departed rest in peace
Her song ministered to me alot of times and even now i say Ekueme!!!!!!!
Rest my lady rest!